One of my goals that I have set for myself is to experience things alone. Such as: going to the movies, eating out, going to gatherings - you get the idea.
I think it is healthy for newly single people to do this in order to prove to themselves that they are okay in their skin.
It will not be so difficult for me, because I've done this before. Admittedly I have become somewhat hesitant because I did come to rely on his company for mostly everything. I have gone to the movies alone before and I have had many meals at a table for one.
Last night I went to the jacuzzi alone and was okay until a group of kids showed up to smoke out. I felt uncomfortable being seen alone in a jacuzzi. Ridiculous as it may seem, it did bother me. So, I did what any other girl would do; I forced myself to stay for at least another 10 minutes before nonchalantly getting out.
http://www.elle.com/Life-Love/Ask-E.-Jean/Ask-E.-Jean-25-Things-Every-Woman-Should-Know
I just read this article and I think every woman out there should too. It is honest, witty and up front. I am getting into the habit of reading articles in blogs, magazines, whatever. Most times I walk away with something new to think about.
Anyway, it is time to feed this new relationship with yourself. Whether it be a new hair cut, a massage, flowers, whatever - just do it.
Namaste.
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